According to a new survey, what mothers want for Mother’s Day and what the men in their lives think they want for Mother’s Day aren’t necessarily the same thing.

The online shopping service Ebates polled 2,215 adults on what moms want on May 13. The number one answer for men was flowers, whereas the number one answer for woman was a day at the spa where they can enjoy the likes of a massage and a facial.

That isn’t to say flowers is a bust of gift — it did rank number two among women. The other gifts that women favored were jewelry and tablet/smartphones.

So, fellas, it’s not too late to trade in those chocolates, the Mother’s Day staple that was not listed among mom’s favorite presents to receive.

[Business Wire]