I Always Wanted to Be a Dog Mom

Growing up, I always wanted a dog. I begged my parents countless times to allow a furry friend to come home with us. I refused to accept that our small St. Louis apartment would not allow us to have a pet. Of course, my parents (and the apartment management) won this battle.

To fill the void, I would spend my time at my grandparents’ house making friends with our canine neighbors while they were in their backyards. With my adolescent hand shoved through the gaps of a chain-link fence, I spent forever trying to give out as many pets as possible. Despite the angry red indentions of the fence wiring in my hands, I walked away with a huge grin as if I outsmarted the system.

As soon as I moved away for college and rented my first apartment in Evansville, I adopted my terrier-mix, Prudence, from the Vanderburgh Humane Society. A six-week-old bundle of reddish-brown fur and white markings, she was named after one of my favorite Beatles’ songs. From then on, I was officially a dog mom.


Now, 11 years later, Prudence shares her home with two other dogs. Daisy, a floppy-eared beagle, was a “surprise” my boyfriend came home to after work when I saw she was being rehomed on Facebook. And Duke, our long-haired Dachshund, was adopted from a local rescue after months of searching. Of course, I would adopt many more but according to my boyfriend, there must be a “limit.”

<Insert eye roll.>

Whether you have one dog or ten, there is no doubt that owning a dog can definitely infect you with a case of warm and fuzzies. Despite not actually giving birth to your bundles of fur, becoming a dog mom can induce some major maternal feelings.

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